Jerold (Jay) or (Jerry) Mendenhall is a fraudulent liar. All women in the Richmond and Henrico, Virginia area should beware of this man. At first he seems sincere and a little charming. He works as a Maintenance Manager for Henrico’s Doctor’s Hospital. This man will talk your ears off, he will brag and brag about who is he, who his ancestors were, and most of all he’ll talk endlessly about his 20 year career in the Air Force. More disturbing is that his recent divorce has devestated him to the point that he’s no longer a normal human being. He has become so incredibly selfish that it’s shocking. Everything about this man is all about money.
Be very careful if you come to meet this man. He is seriously “twisted” inside his head. He has nothing but very, very old ideas about society. This man is a bonefide racist, almost like a White Supremecist, although he does have friends of color, he doesnt’ trust them or anyone. He has very old ideas about women too … this is his biggest stumbling block. He was married to a horrible women for almost 30 years, so he can’t get her out of his head. He is a control freak and very much wants to be married again … so he can control again and act like he’s King of the World or one of the Masters of the Universe.
He is completely convinced he knows everything and constantly tells others what to do as if he’s your teacher and you’re a stupid 5 year old, especially to women. He’s completely unaware when he talks down to you. He really hasn’t become self-aware in the serious sense, which is why he has a very hard time figuring out who he is and how he feels, therefore, he does not know how to honestly express hinself. Unfortunately, many men have this problem, but if you find yourself involved with this man, be careful because he has too many different personalities … or alter-egos as he likes to refer to them. He might suck you in … but be very careful, because he’s definitely got alot of perverted likes and ideas. And after all the promises in the world … he’ll turn his back on you in the coldest and cruelest way you can imagine. Whatever you do, do not get financially involved with this man either.